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At parties or when swapping, I have problems getting hard.It's depressing
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There is nothing to get depressed about this. By the tone of your question, I think I can see why you are having this problem: you are putting too much pressure on yourself to perform and ESPECIALLY not to disappoint. Take it easy. Go in there relaxed and not expecting to be a don juan. And think about the many ways you CAN please your partner(s) without an erection.. believe me there are many.
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Do we tell our kids about what we do? How do we go about it?
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You probably don't need to go into the gory details or be explicit. But by simply stating you're adults and these are the decisions you make are things a lot of kids can respect...or at least my kids can respect that.
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My partner won't swing. How do I convince her?
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You should not CONVINCE your partner. I you press hard, she may accept but it would be to please you and it won't last and the consequences can even be disastrous. Instead, examine why you want to swing: Is it for your own pleasure or to enhance your sexual life. If it’s the later, you should start by doing things that are different and naturally, you will reach together the decision to swing.
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Swinging seems to involve a risk. What can I expect to get out of it?
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Swinging allows you to explore your favorite fantasies safely. You and your partner can engage in private, intimate sexual activity, share someone in a threesome, enjoy with another couple, or engage in group swinging, all in the space of an evening. You can make new friends, and meet interesting people. It can also enhance your personal life and relationship, it can give you a positive feeling about your self and your partner
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I am new. Is it normal to feel jealous?
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Yes, As matter of fact, if you were not, i would be a bit worried.
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