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  Welcome To Swingers Life Network: 

My husband John and I and all the members of the Swingers Lifetime network would like to welcome you to our website. We hope you will find everything you need to learn and enjoy this lifestyle. This website is our contribution to the swinging lifestyle and the swingers’ community. In effect, John and I heard about his from a friend 13 years ago and decided to try it. We never looked back. We have enjoyed every bit of the moments and have met some of the most wonderful people on the face of this earth. But it has not been all roses all the time. We encountered a few difficulties not only dealing with each other but also dealing with other people and the mere concept of the lifestyle itself. This website is not only for experienced swingers who want to keep up with the happenings and issues in the lifestyle but most importantly for those couples are contemplating the idea of swinging.

Carolina Gibbs



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   Ask Carolina

Swinging seems to involve a risk. What can I expect to get out of it?
Swinging allows you to explore your favorite fantasies safely. You and your partner can engage in private, intimate sexual activity, share someone in a threesome, enjoy with another couple, or engage in group swinging, all in the space of an evening. You can make new friends, and meet interesting people. It can also enhance your personal life and relationship, it can give you a positive feeling about your self and your partner

As a married man am I allowed to attend swingers parties as a single. Is that ok?
You'll be welcomed whether you're married, dating, living with your significant other, or going steady. Today's world has changed dramatically from just a few years ago. Marriage is not a condition of belonging. Most clubs are for male/female couples only. You must be of legal age and both of you need to know what the club is all about.

I am new. Is it normal to feel jealous?
Yes, As matter of fact, if you were not, i would be a bit worried.

Do we tell our kids about what we do? How do we go about it?
You probably don't need to go into the gory details or be explicit. But by simply stating you're adults and these are the decisions you make are things a lot of kids can respect...or at least my kids can respect that.

What is closed, open and soft swinging?
Soft swinging involves watching another couple during sexual encounters. Closed swinging: here partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in completely separate rooms. In Open swinging, partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room.

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  Carolina recommends... finally.  

Since this site was up in 1998, I have always abstained from doing endorsement, especially for clubs, events etc since I cannot visit all the clubs nor can I attend all the events. But after so many requests, I have decided to give my two cents insofar as the sites. All the sites have their advantages and inconveniences. And obviously, if you can afford it, the more memberships to sites, the more chances you have. But if you were to have only two memberships, I would recommend:

  •  Swingers Date Club or SDC: If you are looking for quality, SDC is your bet. Their site is very nicely done. Their chat feature is excellent and therefore has an average of over 3500 users at anytime. Excellent customer service. Their membership is always purged. They even refuse money from members they feel are not real! 
  • Adult Friend Finder: I know it’s weird for me to recommend these guys since they are not dedicated to swingers. But I have a membership their and due to the huge membership base, we’ve meet great folks there, especially when were looking for females.


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MBC
Married Black Couple

PRO
Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.

TRIAD
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.

BONDAGE
A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."

VOYEURISM
Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity.

STRAIGHT
Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people.

GENEROUS
Refers to money for sex.

SWEDISH CULTURE:
Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another

VERSATILE
Bisexual. (see AC/DC)

ALL CULTURES
Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE)

FELLATIO
Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.

CLOSET SWINGER
A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET)

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I recommend that you read: "The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers".. This book is packed with historical facts regarding swinging. If you are comtemplating swinging, reading this book will not necessarily help you make up your mind but it will tell you who the swingers are.
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